Compitability

"udah donk jut, ngga cape apa berantem melulu? apa susahnya siiih, pacaran damai gitu, kan enak"

Yupp... that's the idiotic part of me talking to my bff, about one and a half years ago.. The me at that time think it's so easy to have a peaceful relationship. I thought, why not? if i've been spending my 28 years of living, with only a few quarrels with the many people i've known all my life, i assume, what will be the different with a boyfriend?

Yes, if i am given the chance to go back, to that little coffee chat, i would've think twice, nope.. maybe three or even four times before letting that stupid sentence came out of my bloody mouth.

Agree, that there's no such thing as peaceful relationships. And that's because you care too much for each others. i should even ask myself, if i'm or he's not irritated by many things that i've done, it's a sign that we don't care enough for each other.. coz, there's no way that two people are so very compatible for each other that they think alike, and act as what their partner would've want them to do..

And i'm hopefully not just saying this to give my self the strength to hold on :(